Updated: Nov 4, 2021
I'm admittedly a control freak. When I'm faced with a decision, I obsessively plan in my mind and think through a million different outcomes to try to keep my inner world peaceful.
Wanna know the truth about obsessively planning? It's a fucking illusion that doesn't EVER work. It actually keeps us stuck and consumed in a chaotic mind. That's why so many of us are stressed and filled with anxiety.
The 100% truth is WE HAVE NO FUCKING control! Zero! We think we do, but we don't! It's a joke that we humans like to think that the more we plan and the obsess, the more influence and control we will have. We can certainly do our part and make choices/decisions, but we have no ultimate control over the outcome. Only God, Universe, Source knows the outcome. Our little minds may want to do it's thing and plan and plan and plan, but it's actually crazy making really. It's a complete recipe for temporary insanity. 🤦♀️🤷♀️🤦♀️
When you find yourself in the middle of panic because you're stuck in indecision or uncertain of the outcome, pause and just know, this is a sign to release and let go. 🙌 It's brutally hard. I'm not even going to lie to you. Your mind will deceive you into thinking that it has all the answers. It will deceive you into thinking that if you stay in this chaotic state, you will finally figure this thing out. You may make a decision, but it will not be for your highest good.
Pray about it (or whatever you do to connect with something bigger than you 🤲🙏📿) and release it! Every single time I do, I get the answers. EVERYTIME! It doesn't come from my mind either. It comes from a peaceful place within me that knows what's the next best choice for me.
Each and every time, even though I know this truth, my mind will pull me in to yet another state of believing I will figure out this problem, solely with my mind.
Your scattered, chaotic mind will not fix this problem. Something much greater than you will! It does have the answers and does know what's best for YOU. 👇
TRUST THE PROCESS. Incredibly easy to say, very hard to do. I'm learning too. 🙂
If you're stuck in indecision or uncertainty about a decision you need to make, connect with me! 💕❤️